It’s been another beautiful week. I couldn’t ask for more perfect weather than what the Minnesota summers bring.
Last weekend, our family went up north to my in-laws’ cabin for the Fourth of July holiday. I prepared myself for the worst as it seems any time we find time to take a break there, temperatures drop and rain falls, leaving me feeling claustrophobic inside the cabin. Not this time. The weather was absolutely perfect. The skies were clear, the sun shone and we were able to enjoy sitting down on the dock, soaking up the sun or fishing. We played bean bag toss and volleyball out in the yard. I brought a couple of books and read to my heart’s content. We spent time with our extended family, and I got my baby-fix while doting on my sweet six-month old nephew, Ryan. Ryan is an absolutely charming baby. He’s always smiling, with a grin so big it lights up his eyes. He was perfectly content to let me carry him around the property while he gazed wide-eyed at his surroundings. I took a long, quiet walk with him down the secluded driveway, just enjoying the way he clung to me and cooed over my shoulder as he took in the scenery around him. If you ask me, one of the best feelings in the world is having a happy little baby cling to you contentedly. Sigh! I miss babies.
On Saturday, we all piled into the speed boat and headed out to watch a fireworks display from the water. I’m not a big fan of riding around in a boat in the dark, but thankfully there was a full moon out that night to help light our way. We anchored in a bay that was already beginning to fill with other boats full of spectators. The night air was warm and the fireworks show was spectacular. We arrived back at the cabin near midnight and I fell asleep almost as soon as my head hit the pillow. It felt so good to sleep with the windows open and the night air blowing through the room while I huddled up inside a warm sleeping bag. I slept long and hard; something I don’t do often enough.
My employer was very generous this year, giving us both Friday and Monday off with holiday pay. I felt so much more relaxed coming home from the cabin on Sunday, knowing I had an extra day to get back in the swing of things at home before heading back to work.
And I can’t complain about having a short work-week two weeks in a row! Everyone at the office seems to have benefited from the long weekend. The atmosphere is relaxed and everyone is in a good mood. I have laughed more at work this week than I can remember doing in a long time. The funniest thing ever happened Wednesday morning. My boss received a couple of voice mails that had her laughing so hard there were tears flowing down her cheeks and she could barely speak. Of course, she came out to find me, and I managed to understand a few words…
“…Made my day…gotta hear this… “
She motioned for me to follow her into her office and dialed into her voice mail, instructing me to just listen and to also pay attention to the time the messages were received. The automated voice on the system announced,
“You have two messages. First message, received Tuesday at 9:20 p.m.”
(It’s important to note that our office is closed each day by 5:00 p.m.)
On the message system, a familiar voice was heard. It was that of my coworker, K, sounding a little frantic.
“Hi (Boss), it’s me, K. Oh my gosh. I’m so sorry! I’m late for work. I don’t know what happened. I guess I overslept. It’s after nine. I’ll…I’ll…I’ll be there as soon as I can.”
And then came the second message. Again, it was K, sounding much calmer and maybe a bit sheepish this time around.
“Hi (Boss), it’s K again. Disregard my last message. It’s after nine o’clock on Tuesday night. I must have fallen asleep and when I woke up, I thought it was Wednesday morning. It’s still Tuesday night. Never mind. See you tomorrow.”
K showed up in the boss’ office just as we were listening to the end of the message. She was a good sport about it and by the end of the day, had encouraged almost everyone in the office to go have a listen and a laugh at her expense.
Another good thing this week; Mark got his new truck, a silver 2009 Chevrolet Silverado Extended Cab. (Yes, Oscar. He buys American!) He’s happy as a clam. I’m happy he’s done stressing out over trying to find the best price and having to deal with car salesmen and driving me a little bonkers in the process. Now he’s like a little kid with a new toy. He keeps asking me if I want to drive it but I’m ok with being the passenger and playing with the XM radio. Besides, I don’t want to be the first to put a scratch on it. I’m perfectly content to drive my “old” Impala that gets excellent gas mileage, has already met the butt of one deer and has its share of scratches.
I’m still trying to comprehend the crisis I mentioned earlier this week. The whole thing makes me feel very helpless. I guess I have to look at it with the knowledge that it’s not a life threatening situation for anyone involved and as much as I hate to see people I love hurting, I have to believe that somehow they’ll get through this.
For now, I’m looking forward to a spending the weekend at a softball tournament, watching my daughter play. How she loves to play! I just want to enjoy these times with her before they pass us by. It makes me realize that in spite of life’s trials, life is still good.
Have a great weekend!

21 Comments
July 10, 2009 at 12:22 am
Sounds like a great week in the Quite Contrary Household…also known as QCH, Inc.
Here’s our July 4th recap: Driving north on I-94 back to Fargo, we were either five minutes late or 10 minutes early to every town’s show on the trip. We kept trying to explain to our older daughter what the problem was. Finally, she just said “Daddy, maybe you’re going too slow…or too fast…or maybe you’re just not driving right.”
And so it goes.
By the way Terri, I know you’ve tried to win various prizes on my radio program – just wanted to tell you we’re starting a contest to win a trip to Saturn….not the car…..the planet. This could be a great family outing.
Just a thought.
July 10, 2009 at 4:37 am
Love the phone messages! I haven’t done that yet, but there have been mornings where I have hauled myself out of bed and got ready for work, only to find that it is Saturday!
We want pics of Mark with his new toy!
July 10, 2009 at 5:26 am
Coworkers can sometimes provide us with hours of amusement (or headaches, depending upon the personality). Sounds like someone had too much fun over the weekend. I seem to recall a recent story about SOMEONE and their fundraiser stuff?
Congrats to Mark and his new toy. Does he fret and worry over keeping it new & shiney?
July 10, 2009 at 6:40 am
Recap of my 4th of July…I worked. Pretty boring. But this next week I have a 4 day “weekend” so I’m pretty excited about that. Congrats to Mark on his new toy….Can we see pictures?
July 10, 2009 at 8:14 am
Happy weekend! Pretty hilarious story from work. Something similar once happened to me. The feeling of relief when you know you haven’t overslept and you can actually go back to sleep…heavenly.
Cool co-worker you have there. Allowing everyone to listen and have a bit of fun at her expense.
Have a great weekend and when you get around to it, can you send some of that lovely weather our way? Thx ;o)
July 10, 2009 at 8:49 am
HAHAHAHA!!!!! I’ve done that! I’ve fallen asleep, only to wake up and think I was supposed to be at work when the day hasn’t even really ended yet. I’ve gone as far as to call in and wonder why no one answered the phone. Reading this post makes me feel much better about it. Too funny.
July 10, 2009 at 9:27 am
Sounds like a great 4th! And yes, those babies….
That’s too funny about the co-worker. I wish I had time to nap so I could make the same mistake.
July 10, 2009 at 10:09 am
Yep I’ve woken up at 8pm saw the light outside and made a mad dash for work just to notice that there was no rush hour and the neighbors were drinking beer and barbecuing.
July 10, 2009 at 11:24 am
Had a comment all set until I got to the end of your post about being at a softball tourney all weekend. That sounds like the most miserable thing to me here, where temps are over 105. And then I realize where YOU are, the weather is grand and pleasant. So, get out there this weekend and enjoy. I’ll be sitting in front of my refrigerator with the door open.
July 10, 2009 at 11:45 am
TGIF! And good thing there’s another holiday in the horizon in a couple months! Those Europeans have it all figured out – vacation, vacation, vacation!
Glad you had a good time at the cabin. This reminded me that I still have to post pics from our trip. Ah, the to-do list~
July 10, 2009 at 12:33 pm
i have woken up panicked that I was late but never called before
July 10, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Sounds like a perfect long weekend. Who knew that Minnesota had such nice weather and places to enjoy the 4th….
July 10, 2009 at 5:05 pm
Have a great weekend Terri!
July 10, 2009 at 7:26 pm
CG – Trip to Saturn contest! Wow, I want to win that for my neighbor’s dog. And the “Quite Contrary” household – too good.
It always makes me warm and happy when you are happy. Glad you had the great holiday, stoked up on the baby time, and Mark finally got his truck.
July 10, 2009 at 8:39 pm
Your report on your long, holiday weekend sounds terrific. Watching fireworks, while on a boat -now that would have to be fantastic.
And tell Mark, congrats on the new truck. Maybe it was his purchase that put GM over the edge and back on the upward track since they announced today that GM came out of the bankruptcy stuff earlier than expected.
Hope this weekend is just as great for you as was last weekend.
July 10, 2009 at 8:58 pm
I think you can have the windows open in Minnesota about 4% of the year. This summer has been the exception to the rule. NICE
Juice Newton?? ehh , just like the name!
July 11, 2009 at 2:57 am
It sounds like a fantastic 4th. I love getting my baby fix now and then. They are so cuddly. Their hugs fill my heart with peace.
I had to laugh at your co-workers messages. It’s happened to me on a weekend, but I’ve never gone as far as to leave a message as evidence. I’m glad your co-worker has a sense of humor. That is always necessary, running late or not.
I hope your weekend is wonderful.
July 12, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Hahah… I love funny moments like that at work…
July 13, 2009 at 7:13 am
Well, Your 4th weekend sounded like a fun happy family event! No pictures?
Ata boy Mark! Thats one step to helping people keep jobs!
I’ve done that! LOL 12 hrs apart!
Time heals. Your friends will get past it. Your concern and prayers will help them.
Nice post Terri.
July 13, 2009 at 6:30 pm
I do love a happy post.
July 13, 2009 at 8:32 pm
Wow! Your employer RULES for giving you guys Friday and Monday off! And Im glad you had SUCH a great time! xoxoxo